It Was Never Locked

A friend recently sought my help as a coach. She was feeling trapped and miserable in her job and her life.
We talked through her options. I asked questions. I listened for the “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts” and “have tos.” That was all.
She told me later that she had a vision as she was falling asleep that night. She saw herself in a jail cell, surrounded by iron bars.
I came into her vision and opened the door. “It was never locked,” I told her.
And she simply walked out from behind the bars.
I can’t wait to see where she goes.

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